GOD doesn't get hurt, or upset, GOD is not defective, never disappointed, GOD is free to be what we want, or don't want, GOD is and GOD is not.
GOD is with many names, and no name.
So is life, events, situations, circumstances, people, whatever we describe is our reality. Our reality can be altered, our living our life in what we perceive, what we think, what we do can be changed.